Lisa Rinna’s Tips for Heating up Your Sex Life

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Days of Our Lives actor Lisa Rinna gives her sex tips in her latest book The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book co-authored with sex therapist Ian KernerWhen she was writing her New York Times bestseller Rinnavation, Lisa Rinna was struggling with a lack of sex drive, or what she calls “how I lost my mojo.” It became one of her most talked about passages, and in her latest, the Days of Our Lives actor teams up with nationally acclaimed sex therapist Ian Kerner in The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book (out May 1). Together they offer helpful tips to solve any number of sexual partnership issues, including mismatched libidos, lack of desire, and just plain old boredom.

Do you have a sex question or dilemma for Lisa and Ian? You can ask them anonymously in the comments below, and we’ll share them with the authors. They’ll be answering your queries for future sex columns right here on Tips on Life & Love!

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Do you have a sex question or dilemma for Lisa and Ian? You can ask them anonymously in the comments below, and we'll share them with the authors. They'll be answering your queries for future sex columns right here on Tips on Life & Love!

VIDEO: Lisa's tips for a sexier love life


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