For the record, when referring to your female external genitals, the correct term is “vulva”–not “vagina,” which is your internal reproductive canal. From Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life.
The name for the whole package of female external genitalia is “vulva.” “Vagina” refers to the internal reproductive canal that leads up to the uterus. People often use “vagina” to refer to the vulva, but now you know better. And if you are standing up naked in front of a mirror and you see the classic triangle?
That’s your mons (“mound”), or mons pubis. Got that?
Vagina = reproductive canal
Vulva = external genitalia
Mons = area over the pubic bone where hair grows
I’m not suggesting that you go around correcting people who use the wrong words, or picket The Vagina Monologues with signs saying,”Actually, they’re The Vulva Monologues,” but now you know what words you should use. You wouldn’t call your face or your forehead your throat, right? So let’s not call the vulva or mons the vagina. Let’s make the world a better place for women’s genitals.